This tragedy occurred on Thursday, April 17, when police shot and killed Geoffrey Shyam Stirling. He was the brother of former Real Housewives of Orange County star Lydia McLaughlin Stirling. The incident occurred around 9:15 p.m. along the Pacific Coast Highway in Newport Beach, California, while Stirling was riding his motorcycle. His local police department prevented him from attending. According to reports, he was “uncooperative,” prompting at least one officer to fire their weapon.
After the shooting, first responders rushed Stirling to an area hospital, where he died from his wounds. The California Department of Justice has opened an investigation into the officer-involved shooting. Those findings will be sent to the DOJ’s Special Prosecutions Section, part of the Office of Special Counsel, for an independent review of the evidence.
In a statement regarding the incident, the California Attorney General’s office confirmed that it “resulted in the death of one individual and involved personnel from the Newport Beach Police Department.”
While the family continues to mourn the loss of Geoffrey, they have asked for privacy as they grieve during this tragic time. Perhaps no one was more crushed than Lydia McLaughlin Stirling, who shared her pain with an emotional message on Instagram.
“My family and I are devastated by the loss of my brother. We are grateful for the outpouring of love and support from friends, family, and the community. We kindly ask for privacy as we mourn.” – Lydia McLaughlin Stirling
Geoffrey Stirling, brother of Judy and Janet, died just six months after his mother, Judy Stirling. Judy passed away from breast cancer on October 8, 2024. Lydia has written about her process of grieving out loud on social media and how community support can carry us through life’s greatest challenges.
“Grief can make you better or bitter. I am putting in my whole heart to turn my sorrow into thanksgiving, for having the privilege to have such a beautiful mom. She will always be my hero, and my favorite.” – Lydia McLaughlin Stirling
Geoffrey would go on to be a beloved brother and son. As a television producer, scriptwriter, actor, and model he played a formative role in the entertainment industry. His family described him as warm-hearted and devoted to his family and charitable endeavors.
“He was a loving son, brother, uncle and friend. He attended church every Sunday and supported multiple charities. We miss him already.” – Scott Stirling
Geoffrey Shyam Stirling’s death investigation is still unfolding. In the interim, his family is committed to honoring their loss and remembering the legacy and contributions he brought to their lives and the community around them.